Law #100 - Position Yourself To Be Wise
by Stanley Bronstein on July 16, 2008
Law #100
Same thing on this post. I’m going to refrain from using my usual format for the Laws of Positioning.
Instead, I am going to list the numerous, EXCELLENT quotes I found on the subject of wisdom and assume we are all on the same page as to the meaning of the words. Then we’ll tie it all together.
Position Yourself To Be Wise
- As irrigators lead water where they want, as archers make their arrows straight, as carpenters carve wood, the wise shape their minds. (Buddha)
- Wise men speak because they have something to say; Fools because they have to say something. (Plato)
- Fools live to regret their words, wise men to regret their silence. (Will Henry)
- The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet. (James Oppenheim)
- A wise man changes his mind, a fool never. (Spanish Proverb)
- The fool speaks, the wise man listens. (African Proverb)
- A wise man makes his own decisions, an ignorant man follows public opinion. (Chinese Proverb)
- To the wise, life is a problem; to the fool, a solution. (Marcus Aurelius)
- A foolish man tells a woman to stop talking, but a wise man tells her that her mouth is extremely beautiful when her lips are closed. (Author Unknown)
So What Does This All Mean?
Just like many of the Laws of Positioning, Wisdom has its opposite. The opposite of wisdom is foolishness.
So, apparently the best way to be wise is to avoid being foolish.
How Do We Avoid Being Foolish?
Just like all opposites, the best way to avoid being foolish is to be wise.
- Don’t do stupid things, especially if you know in advance that they’re probably stupid.
- Don’t speak just because you feel as if you have to speak. ONLY speak when you have something wise to say.
- Do not look for wisdom elsewhere. Look for it within yourself.
- Do NOT be afraid to change your mind. If you realize you might have been wrong, CHANGE YOUR MIND. Do NOT be stubborn unless you know you are right.
- Remember that we have 2 ears and 1 mouth. That means we are supposed to listen twice as much as we speak.
- Stop focusing on problems and start focusing on solutions.
What Happens If We Start Doing These Things?
If we start following the precepts and ideas outlined herein, we just might surprise ourselves.
We just might discover that we are wiser than we ever believed.
And that my friends is the most important point. If we believe we are wise; if we believe we are supposed to look for wisdom everywhere; if we believe that we have the capability of being wise; if we believe that wisdom is where it’s at; THEN WE HAVE POSITIONED OURSELVES TO BE WISE.
Until next time, take care, my dear friends.Mr. Achievement
Stanley F. Bronstein
Attorney & CPA








July 16th, 2008 at 7:46 am
Stanley, I have so much fun reading YOUR wise words and the wonderful quotes. When we read more, we learn more - and we talk less! A good thing, eh?
Stephanie
http://www.hressential.com
July 16th, 2008 at 7:57 am
Stephanie:
I don’t know. I’m too busy reading what you’re saying to talk about it . . .
Howzabout another thought. We have one mouth and ten fingers, so we should type 10 times as much as we talk . . .
I think there “might’ be a little faulty logic in there someplace . . .
Stanley Bronstein
MrAchievement
July 16th, 2008 at 10:26 am
Hi Stanley. Wisdom. Wow, what a topic. You have some great points here. The wisest people I know, those in whom I hear true wisdom, are securely positioned in humility — the understanding that we are the consciousness in which wisdom can emerge. So, your point about looking for it within yourself, what I call listening for that authentic voice, is something I can relate to. Thanks for a great topic.
Andrea
July 17th, 2008 at 1:16 am
Andrea:
Thank you for your kind words. Your similar appreciation of this topic means a lot to me.
Take care my friend.
Stanley Bronstein
MrAchievement
July 16th, 2008 at 3:11 pm
Wisdom is harder to measure than foolishness. Fools are outright obvious about their stupidity. However, silence and stillness is but a mask of experience on a wise person who once lived foolishly and now sits back and watches others do the same.
July 17th, 2008 at 1:14 am
C:
You are so correct on your analysis that I give you an “A” . . .
Stanley Bronstein
MrAchievement
July 17th, 2008 at 2:58 am
Wise men have no or little ego. Unwise folks have too much of ego.
July 17th, 2008 at 3:18 am
Vivienne:
Personally I believe we ALL have too much ego, but the wiser we are, the better we are at “controlling” it.
Stanley Bronstein
MrAchievement
July 17th, 2008 at 1:02 pm
There are so many things here that I enjoyed reading and can learn from, but the last quote just made me laugh out loud.
All my best,
Jackie
July 17th, 2008 at 4:58 pm
That quote was so funny that I actually woke my wife up to tell it to her when I saw it.
She has a “beautiful” mouth by the way . . . Especially when it’s closed . . .
Stanley Bronstein
MrAchievement